Warning: The Hidden Financial Mistakes Divorcing Couples Make That Affect the Rest of Their Lives
June 3, 2026
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Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:
- Discover how Patricia Van Haren's personal experience with both her parents' high conflict divorce and her own shaped the way she approaches helping families through one of the hardest transitions of their lives.
- Learn why assuming that an account in your name is your account alone is one of the most common and costly misconceptions divorcing couples bring into the process.
- Uncover the truth about community property in California and why when income was earned matters far more than where it was deposited or whose name is on the account.
- Find out why waiving spousal support just to get the divorce over with faster can leave one spouse in a serious financial situation that is very difficult to undo later.
- Explore how collaborative divorce works even in high conflict situations, and why the privacy and structure of the process makes it a smarter financial choice for many couples.
- Get a clearer picture of how equity compensation like stock options and RSUs gets divided in a divorce, and why a financial neutral is often essential to getting that analysis right.
- Learn what happens when one spouse takes the children out of state before the case is filed, and how that single decision can completely change the outcome on custody.
- Understand why hiding assets in a divorce never works, and what courts think when they find out it was attempted.
- Discover what prenuptial agreements actually cover beyond just divorce, and why Patricia believes most couples should have one before they get married.
In this episode…
Most people going through a divorce are focused on getting through it as fast and painlessly as possible. But family law attorney Patricia Van Haren says that urgency is exactly what leads to the financial mistakes that follow people for the rest of their lives. Waiving spousal support to avoid conflict, agreeing to a settlement without understanding community property law, or assuming that money in your own account belongs solely to you — these are decisions that feel reasonable in the moment and become very costly once the paperwork is signed.
Patricia breaks down what California community property law actually says, why an inheritance is treated differently than income earned during a marriage, and how equity compensation like stock options and RSUs requires a much deeper financial analysis than most couples expect. She also explains how collaborative divorce gives families a private, structured way to resolve even the most contentious situations without handing a judge the power to decide their financial future — and why about 95% of divorce cases, even litigated ones, never actually go to trial.
In this episode of Verdict Signal , host Daniel Gouw interviews Patricia C. Van Haren, partner at Moradi Neufer LLP and one of California's most respected collaborative family law attorneys and mediators with over 21 years of experience in family law. Patricia is the President of Collaborative Practice California, past president of Collaborative Divorce Solutions of Orange County, a board member of the IACP, recipient of the 2023 Eureka Award, and author of "How to Survive a Divorce in California." The conversation covers collaborative divorce, prenuptial agreements, community property, equity compensation, custody mistakes, and what it truly costs when couples settle without fully understanding their rights. Tune in to learn how to make informed choices that protect what you build.
Patricia breaks down what California community property law actually says, why an inheritance is treated differently than income earned during a marriage, and how equity compensation like stock options and RSUs requires a much deeper financial analysis than most couples expect. She also explains how collaborative divorce gives families a private, structured way to resolve even the most contentious situations without handing a judge the power to decide their financial future — and why about 95% of divorce cases, even litigated ones, never actually go to trial.
In this episode of Verdict Signal , host Daniel Gouw interviews Patricia C. Van Haren, partner at Moradi Neufer LLP and one of California's most respected collaborative family law attorneys and mediators with over 21 years of experience in family law. Patricia is the President of Collaborative Practice California, past president of Collaborative Divorce Solutions of Orange County, a board member of the IACP, recipient of the 2023 Eureka Award, and author of "How to Survive a Divorce in California." The conversation covers collaborative divorce, prenuptial agreements, community property, equity compensation, custody mistakes, and what it truly costs when couples settle without fully understanding their rights. Tune in to learn how to make informed choices that protect what you build.
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